White Privilege, Jewish Privilege and Not Knowing 9/6/2021

            During the last year I was involved in two study groups focusing on racism and white privilege.  A recent incident brought home to me the problem of Jewish privilege. An individual on the Education Committee of a synagogue objected to the presentation of a workshop on “Responsibility in the Jewish Tradition.” The intention of the workshop was to touch, only briefly, on complicity, structural racism, bias and white privilege. The objection was that the person did not want to present anything controversial, because the synagogue might lose members. 

 

         I find this objection to be extremely problematic. Membership, although vital to the survival of the synagogue, was given priority over education about an important and admittedly controversial social justice issue. I maintain that this attitude reflects a subtle form of white privilege which manifests as a desire to maintain ignorance of racial issues because these issues make people uncomfortable. This is clearly a violation of Jewish tradition which mandates that we are all responsible for each other. This mitzvah actually extends beyond the bounds of the Jewish community. We are mandated to speak out against injustice wherever it is to be found and bear responsibility when we don’t. (This was one of the central points of the proposed presentation.)

 

When we ignore social justice issues, or subordinate these issues to other concerns, we invite ignorance, and cheapen the importance of our tradition. Not dealing with social and racial issues, as divisive as they may be, is dismissive of People of Color (POC), and is a betrayal of our own tradition and history as a minority people.

 

I have little doubt that a program focused on anti-Semitism and what we can do to combat that scourge would be welcome. The truth is that we cannot fight anti-Semitism without fighting racism. White supremacists are equal opportunity haters of Jews, POC, LGBTQ and other minorities. To fight this battle we must understand the enemy both outside of us and within us. White supremacy and the related doctrine of manifest destiny are part of the legacy of the USA. The doctrine of manifest destiny has roots in the Christian belief that Israel and its “successors” are chosen. That doctrine nurtured slavery, the genocide of indigenous peoples, and policies that continually privilege white moneyed interests. Ideas and policies such as these must be repudiated and fought through all possible peaceful means.

        

         As Jews we live in two civilizations. We are both an oppressed minority and (those of us who are white) beneficiaries of being white. Jews of color face unique issues as well. We need to acknowledge both of these identities, and not hide behind a self-righteous attitude that claims we are both a targeted minority and, as a community long involved in the Civil Rights movement, the true allies of POC.­  While those claims are true, we also benefit, often unknowingly, from participation in racist systems and practices that pervade our culture.

 

 While truth and peace are sometimes at odds (Ketubot 16b) when injustice is involved there is an obligation for tochecha – rebuke and calling out truth. To sanction ignorance for the sake of comfort and peace in this case is unconscionable because we are responsible for each other. (Talmud, Shevuot 39a). Let us confront the critical issues of our time with courage, education, humility, soul searching and action. We cannot solve these problems without taking a hard look within ourselves and our own communities.

 

 Let us begin by taking up the challenge of creating a Kehilah kodoshah, a holy community, concerned about both justice and creating a space where all views can be heard and respected. We need to listen to each other with openness and humility in order to discern the often complex facts underlying issues, and find solutions to pressing problems. While political ideologies increasingly separate us, we must come together around common values, and seek practical solutions to problems of injustice. 

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Jewish Climate Action Conference: Everything is connected

Join me at the Jewish Climate Action Conference Sunday, April 25. There are lots of great workshops including the one I will be presenting on Spiritual Resilience and Values Based Action.

Sessions focus on carbon reduction, advocacy, spiritual resilience, soil and agriculture, as well as raising up the voices of youth and addressing environmental justice. The day-long event is geared toward action solutions and strengthening the national Jewish climate action network. Opportunities are available for connecting with other climate activists in your geographic region or those with similar interests. View the schedule of sessions at https://www.jewishclimate.org/conference-sessions.html.  Sign up for the conference at https://www.jewishclimate.org/conference-sessions.html

 

Climate disaster is the crisis of our era, challenging us technically, politically, and economically–as well as a crisis of social justice and a refugee crisis. But less often noted is that climate disaster is a spiritual crisis. It forces us to ask what our life’s purpose is, how to stay emotionally centered in the face of destruction, and how to make the thousands of years of our religious traditions relevant in a situation never envisioned by those who fashioned these traditions.

The JCAN conference offers a holistic and comprehensive view of the work that the climate demands of us today–as much as one can get in just eight hours. This free event covers advocacy (with special events by and for young people), soil and agriculture, decarbonizing, and resilience and weaves together youth, environmental justice, and anti-racism while focusing on action steps. Speakers come from leading Jewish organizations in addition to a wide range of environmental and groups and experts. People of all faiths and backgrounds are invited to attend, learn, and network.

People often ask what they can do, as individuals or members of modest-sized organizations such as synagogues, to make a difference. Effective action to save the climate, and to create a socially just environment, does require large-scale, global work. But individual efforts make a difference. By treating our land, our food, and our buildings as sacred contributions to a better world and raising up environmental justice, we free ourselves somewhat from our dependence on activities that put carbon into the atmosphere. We also strengthen our ability to demand progress from institutions and other people.

 

 

 

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Maintaining Balance During Turbulent Times

This week we are in the midst of one of the most distressing times that can be remembered as we contend with election anxiety, an out of control pandemic, social distancing, social unrest, social media overload,  and the continuing problem of climate change. These challenges threaten to throw us out of balance, focus our attention on perceived threats and sow seeds of helplessness and hopelessness. During these times it is important to maintain a long term perspective and connect with the people, activities and inner resources that enable us to respond to the challenges with resiliency, a heart of love, and compassion. The world has been through rough times before. Justice, truth and love prevail in the end.  We can trust that we too can rise to the occasion. Here are some of the things you can pay attention to now that can be helpful.

  • Focus on personal values and life goals.
  • Be sure you have a support system in place comprised of family members, friends, teachers, mentors and/or counselors.
  • Join like-minded people or organizations to take meaningful action.
  • Make time for self-care including
    • meditation, prayer
    • music
    • exercise
    • some comfort food in conjunction with an overall healthy diet
    • safe (distanced, masked) socializing
  • Manage/limit media exposure.
  • Move forward with your life, planning and scheduling time to balance work, self-care, family responsibilities, and involvement in social issues

 

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5 Ways To Be Happy –  Even When You Might Be Sad

Is it possible to be happy and sad and the same time? This might sound like a trick question, but it really is not. The answer to the question lies in understanding that there are at least two way to understand what happiness is.

The first way of understanding happiness takes happiness to be the opposite of sad. Here we are talking about how you are feeling at the moment, what your emotional state of the moment is. Having a great time with friends? Happy. Having a serious disagreement with your friends? Not so happpy, perhaps even sad. Want to be happy? Just keep doing fun stuff.

These states are situationally based and tend to be transitory, coming and going all the time. Even when your life is filled with these pleasant states there is likely to be a vague sense that something is still missing in your life.  More about that later.

Thinking about happiness as a transitory emotional state leads us to two preconditions for enduring happiness. The first  is to let go of the idea that you should always be in a state of happinessUnderstand that as things happen your mood will change. When things happen it is totally normal and part of human experience for us to feel sadness, pain, hurt or disappointment. Learning to accept those feeling and deal with them in constructive ways won’t bring happiness, but can help avoid excessive suffering, anxiety or depression.

 This understanding of how things are leads to the second precondition for enduring happiness – accepting that there are things you can’t change. Acceptance doesn’t mean you should be passive. It is simply an acknowledgment of how things are even if we don’t like them. Once you acknowledge the limits of your situation you can begin to plan effective action to move yourself to a better place.

While these preconditions of letting go of fixed ideas about happiness and accepting how things are don’t generate happiness they help to prevent us from getting stuck in sadness to navigate through and around the numerous bumps and pot holes we encounter on the road of life.  But to do this we have to look at the second way of understanding  happiness.

In addition to looking at happiness as a transitory emotional state we can also understand happiness as related to a more enduring sense of who you are, what you are and creating a life that you will find full, vibrant and meaningful. Happiness in this sense is simply the opposite of being unhappy.  It is about knowing that you are living your life in a way that is consistent with what you value regardless of the circumstances. This is the missing ingredient we spoke of earlier. In this sense of happiness you and everyone have an infinite capacity for happiness. Cultivating that capacity is the key to what I call true happiness.

 So, here are 5 ways to cultivate the qualities which will put you on the path to a life of happiness.

  1. Be clear about what you value and what is important for your life. I am not speaking about goals such as owning your own home or being a multi-millionaire. Once you accomplish goals you will feel a sense of accomplishment, but that is not a guarantee of happiness. The real issue is what kind of a person do you want to be? What values will you embody in your life? Think about what kind of person you want to be in various contexts such as spouse or partner, parent, sibling, worker, employer, or citizen of your community. Look at other domains of your life considering, for example, how education, intimacy, recreation and physical health are important to you and how you behave in relationship to each.
  1. Once you understand the values and qualities that you want to embody make a list of things you would have to do to behave consistently with those values. For example, if you want to be a loving spouse, what are the loving actions that you need to be doing consistently to really see yourself and be seen by others as a loving person?
  1. Look for things to do that will be both consistent with your values and which will provide you with a sense of pleasure, accomplishment, connection or meaning. Do enjoyable things that are in line with your values. Be wary of doing things just because others tell you it will be fun.  Understand that there may be times when value consistent action may be difficult or unpleasant, such as when you support a friend through difficult times.
  1. Cultivate those highly valued, but sometimes challenging qualities you have identified as important such as gratitude, responsibility, compassion, enthusiasm, humility, creativity and connection. Using meditation and imagery can be very helpful for this aspect of personal growth. For example, to cultivate gratitude think about all you receive as a benefit for your body (air, food, clothing, shelter, care for your body) and for your spirit (companionship, support, love, guidance, education). 
  1. Use mindful awareness to detect when you are caught in a negative mood or a mind trap of negative thoughts. Pausing briefly, focus attention on your breath and body. Then, determine what you can do next to move in one of your valued directions or to cultivate a desired positive quality.

These five ways to cultivate happiness are part of a program of increasing your psychological flexibility.  How to better cope with stress, sadness, interpersonal challenges, health issues and all the unavoidable bumps of life is something that can be learned. You can find information about effective programs on my web sites www.dr-yjkravitz.com or www.spiritualintelligence.com. Come visit us now.

                  This article  originally appeared on YourTango.com: 5 Ways To Be Happy Even When You Might Be Sad, and was reposted on PsychCentral: https://psychcentral.com/blog/feeling-sad-try-these-5-ways-to-feel-happy-instead/.

 

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Miracles and Modernity

The Hanukkah Dilemma – Some Thoughts on Miracles and Modernity

Hanukkah is one of my favorite holidays. Lighting candles, eating latkes and sufganiyot, singing and playing dreidel. I love eating our dinner as we watch the candles burn and we listen to Hanukkah songs that warm us with memories of childhood Hanukkahs past, and inspire us with the deeds of the Maccabees.

The problem creeps in when we start thinking a bit more about why we are lighting those candles. Do we really believe that a miracle happened and a small cruse of oil sufficient to last only one day burned for eight days? A serious look at the traditional Jewish sources from the Books of Maccabees and the Talmud strongly suggest that the idea of miracle oil was a rather late rabbinic invention designed to shift the focus from the heroic Maccabees and their descendants’ less than virtuous actions to a more spiritual and enduring back story.

The rabbis could pull this off because they had complete faith that a miracle could have occurred, that God could have done anything.

It is a bit harder for us. Can we reconstruct Hanukkah in a way that is faithful to the historical facts, and relates a significant spiritual truth?

One approach to this task is to focus on the military victory of the Maccabees and their heroic actions. This has been the approach of Zionism. It is inspiring and significant, but  focuses on a limited set of honorable qualities.

Another approach is that of the rabbis who focused on the loyalty of the Maccabees to their God, their Torah/laws and their people. It was inconceivable to the rabbis that the Maccabees could have prevailed without the help of God. The miracle of the oil was the demonstrable proof that God was involved and that the deeds of the Maccabees had spiritual significance.

If talking about miraculous oil seems too fantastic for us we can focus instead on the real meaning of what a miracle is. Rabbi Herschel Matt (OBM) is reported to have said  a miracle is anything that reveals the power and greatness of God. I would add only that a miracle must show us how God actually functions in the world and in our lives. The real miracle of Hanukkah was the Maccabees belief in God, and their loyalty to their tradition and their people. They didn’t need a supernatural miracle to tell them what to do. The reclamation and rededication of the Temple was their statement that what they had done militarily was not for their own glorification, but was in service to all they held sacred.

When we lose the ability to believe in miracles we lose so much more than belief in a supernatural order. We lose the ability to connect  in a deeply personal way to God and to the values, ideals, rituals and people who have inspired, enlivened and given meaning to generations of Jews. To regain that connection we will need to reframe our understanding of God and our mission as Jews. The Hebrew name for God spelled Yod Hey Vav Hey is really a verb, not a noun. This tells us to think about God as an emergent force manifest in all of the qualities we refer to as godly: love, justice, compassion and more.  Our service to God then becomes a commitment to act out those qualities in our lives and to bring God into the world. Detailed instructions for how to accomplish this mission are found in the entire corpus of Jewish tradition and culture with its values, rituals, and sancta that in turn help preserve the Jewish people.

It is clear that the Maccabees perceived a clear threat to their lives and ways of life. I imagine that they must also have felt a sense of gratitude for what they had and responsibility for preserving it.  True gratitude is based in the sense that what we are given is fully gratuitous.  That sense is  the source from which the meaning of human life grows.  I had no role whatsoever in my creation. Responsibility for my entire being belongs to my parents, nature, the universe, and the Holy Blessed One. I had nothing to do with it. Awareness that my presence on this planet at this time, in this particular body is a totally gratuitous event plants  the seeds for feeling awe and gratitude.    Nurturing these seeds is the work of spiritual development.   That work proceeds for each individual in the context of their individual development, family, culture, and traditions. In this way, spiritual development produces many types of fruit which all spring from the common seeds of gratitude and awe. Each fruit has a distinct taste and flavor, some more sweet and others more tart. All provide nourishment for souls that search for understanding of what this fortuitous life is, how to grace it with meaning and purpose, and how to respond to and take responsibility for this life. 

The Maccabees provide us with an heroic example of how this task can be accomplished. Physical courage coupled with a strong sense of responsibility planted a new generation of seeds, seeds of faith, loyalty, love, compassion, justice, creativity, and sanctity. Following their victory over the oppressor, the Jewish people experienced a period of intense joy from living within an organic community. Calamity struck again and the Jewish people lost the temple with its sacrifices and some of the major forms of their spiritual expression.

The rabbis reconstructed Judaism using and greatly expanding upon existing forms of prayer, ritual and mitzvot to fulfill many of the functions served by the temple service. Those functions are the core of religious life, orienting individuals to their place in the world and their relationship to God, providing moral and spiritual guidance, nurturing community, kindness and interpersonal connection.  All of the elaborate practices that grew to express these functions in ever more complex detail are simply there to point us back to the most essential spiritual truth,  an awareness of the sacredness of life that emerges from the seeds of awe and gratitude within the context of an organic religious civilization.

This primary awareness is largely neglected in our contemporary culture. Work and consumerism have largely replaced the Holy Blessed One and the awareness of the awesomeness of life as the center of attention and power in the lives of many individuals. While this preoccupation results in some beneficial level of prosperity and elevated living standards, it comes with a certain level of narcissism and self-aggrandizement. Popular Eastern forms of religion which stress individual salvation, or release from individual suffering do not provide  a  vehicle that simultaneously addresses individual needs for spiritual fulfillment, and societal needs for justice and mutual responsibility. This is a task which can be addressed by the program of social and religious Reconstructionism proposed by Rabbi Mordecai Kaplan. Kaplan effectively points us in the direction of addressing spiritual needs along with societal needs for justice and equality with a large dose of intellectual integrity. This means reclaiming the miracle of Hanukkah not as a supernatural event of miracle oil, but as an event that shows us how belief in God functions to nurture a sense of gratitude, responsibility, and commitment to our highest values.

Hanukkah reminds us that there is a light at the end of the dark tunnel we sometimes travel through. We are reminded that often we have to fight for freedom, justice and our spiritual values. Hanukkah is the Hebrew word for dedication. The holiday is a call both to remember the rededication of the Temple that had been desecrated by foreigners, and to rededicate ourselves and our communities to fight for and nurture a healthy, modern approach to Judaism that promotes spiritual development, social justice, freedom and equality.

Happy Hanukkah to all.

Rabbi Yaacov J. Kravitz, Ed.D. [©12/30/2016; Rosh Chodesh Tevet, 5777]

 

 

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